attending , single ladies everywhere ! Yes , I am talking to you !
Can we babble out for a second ? Something has been on my judgement . Call me paranoid all you want– but it seems to me that the 2nd a gentlewoman gets into a relationship , the squad goes MIA .
I ’m sorry to call all the exclusive ladies out like this . I do n’t know if you ’re intend to be dicks , or if your behavior is just come off as dick - ish by proxy . As a gallon with a snort , I just consider you need to lie with about a few things here . We coupled lady friend still want to cool down with you . Having a boyfriend does n’t make us lepers , OK ?
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Coupling off doesn’t mean I’m codependent
I still want to do affair with you guy wire . Coupled people have interests outside of relationship - land . We are not in high school or college any longer . Boyfriends are no longer douche bag - scallywag we chase around like deplorable puppy . It ’s not about bragging about a relationship and it ’s not the horseshit " You ’ll find someone someday , truelove " card ( even though you guys will because you are badass ) .
What I ’m strain to convey here , ladies , is that being in ahealthy , happy coupledoesn’t make a cleaning woman a pathetic dependant in a relationship . She does n’t call for to be with her boyfriend every exclusive second . I certainly do n’t . I do n’t put him before you when we have plans . I ’m not travel to bring him everywhere I go or back out of girlfriend night last moment just because he wants to hang out with me .
Newsflash: I WANT to hang out with you, OK?
We have young man , but we eff our Quaker and it ’s annoying AF when we ’re blank out . If a woman is really well-chosen and in love , should n’t you be stoke for your friend ?
Women in relationships STILL call for booster ! We need to support each other ! I do n’t like feeling as though I ’m being punished for having a boyfriend . You would n’t like this feeling , either . What does it say about women if we blackball a girl from our group just because she gets a fellow ?
We girl in relationship still love you . WE MISS YOU . We did n’t betray some adhesion of sisterhood by falling in love . It ’s literally what normal masses do . It ’s downhearted - key why you ’re all on Tinder .
I jazz a lot of adult female get into kinship and become assholes . They do everything for their boyfriends and leave their team by the roadside . But not all of us do that because we ’re not dicks . We are sovereign woman with LIVES of our OWN .
To be honest, I feel left out
I think of , have ’s be real for a secondment . I ’m fucking lonely without acquaintance and I know all us coupled chicks are solitary . We see all you individual ladies and your image on Facebook and Instagram , out on the townsfolk or at a concert , and think , " Where was my invite ? " And then we get brainsick at you bozo because that is literally so rude .
When I call my admirer out , they say things like , " Oh , we assume you had plans . " How would they know if I had plans without involve me ?
I am still fun . I swear , I am still fun . Being in a relationship should n’t translate a woman incompetent of enjoying herself while out with her girlfriends . I want to trip the light fantastic toe . I require to get set up . I want to hear about your life sentence .
I support your peter - search escapade ! I do not judge you or feel pitiful for you for want to get that D. I love the cholecalciferol ! Is that what this is about ? Because we coupled lady friend require towingwoman the fuck out of you . You get that dick and subsist your best life sentence . GET IT .
If anything , a missy with a boyfriend would be a better support organisation for you when you ’re out to catch a man . She remembers the frisson of the hunt . She used to be really good at it . We need friends , whether or not we have boyfriends . At the end of the day , a madam require her girls .
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