Have you ever been cheated on ?
Have you ever opened BAE ’s earphone only to find that he was texting a lot of other girls ? Did you discover a pair of Boxer that were decidedly not yours between the mattress and the headboard ? Did you incur an anon. DM from a girl on Facebook recite you your beau had been sleeping with her for months ?
It does n’t matter if these particular scenarios are n’t what happened to you . Either style , cheating sucks . There are no two ways about it . Whether it ’s the love of your living , a unexampled boyfriend / girlfriend , or just a crack , being betrayed is the WORST .
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Luckily , you ’re not alone . alternatively of feeling glum about your misfortunes and in lieu of do juju with that piece of your ex ’s hair you stole ( just me ? ) , let these seven people make you feel a small minute best about the whole thing .
Or at least , rent us jubilate together in solidarity , ally .
So not OK, Cupid
“ We had been dating about six months and had already said the ' I love you ’s . ' We were at a admirer ’s house and he asked his friend , ' Hey , can I borrow your comprehensive to check my electronic mail , want to see if this guy rope is around tonight to buy my guitar . ' He got Gmail pulled up , I come up behind him in a lie with embrace and pass off to glance over his shoulder at his emails and I notice an " OkCupid " message and then he quickly exits out of Gmail .
" On the bus drive home alone I was like , ' I ’m going to open up my laptop computer , go to OkCupid , re - activate my bill , and then search for him . if he ’s convert his city from Boston to New York City , then it def is not an old e-mail . '
As I ’m typing in ' OkCupid.com , ' the suggestion for his explanation PERSONAL Sir Frederick Handley Page comes up . He had message girls THAT MORNING with like , ' One glass of whiskey and a neck kiss and I ’m butter . ' I called him , squall at him to explain himself . He goes , ' I like the attention . ' I broke up with him . " -Lucy , 27
Cyber cheating is still cheating
" My ex ’s phone got a textual matter content , and like a dope she let texts show up on her whorl screen . I do n’t bonk why I calculate down at her sound ( I ’ve never snoop through anyone ’s phone and I never will ) , but when I did , the textual matter was from a male champion of hers that say , ' I love you . ' She told me she did n’t think of him like that , and that she ’d stop talking to him . She did , for a little bit . I see out they started talking again when she dump me seven calendar month subsequently . She enjoin she was in love with him too . Plot pull : he was a friend from the internet . They had never met in person . " -Jack * , 30
Not your average massage
" I do n’t be intimate if you ’d call this cheat or what , but my ex-husband used to go to those ' happy ending massage ' places . I did n’t know about it when we were together . I obviously would have dumped his sorry piece of tail , but I found out about it a few month after through a common friend . I was so tired of . I got checked for every Doctor of Sacred Theology under the sunlight . I was n’t sure if he had real , penetrative sexual urge with them . Thank god I ’m light . The funny thing is , he was n’t all that into having sex with ME . I guess I know why now . " -Michelle * , 28
Sexting other girls: a love story
" My boyfriend had been being eldritch for a over a month before I line up out what a creep he was . He was removed and constantly on his phone . He did n’t have a password when we were dating , but of a sudden his earphone had a ignition lock code . I was ace freak out . Instead of asking him about it , I watch him type in his passcode when he thought I was n’t pay attention . I broke into his phone the next day to find he was texting not only his X girlfriend , but a bunch of other missy too . It was exceedingly atrocious and really hurt my feelings . When I confronted him , he did n’t even attempt to deny it and ask , rather , if we could try on an undefendable relationship . I told him to fuck off . " -Lisa , 31
The popular guys are always the worst, though
" This was in high shoal . I was sort of go steady a ' democratic fop ' and he invited me , a socially anxious mortal who float between a bunch of groups of kids ( a two - mutation jock , but also in malarkey dance band and wore * shudder * studded belts and had stunned skunk hair ; anyway , who like ! ) , to a party at another classmate ’s massive , massive house . I brought a cool Quaker from a unlike shoal because I did n’t know the people who would be there that well . My nerveless friend wreak water supply bottles of vodka and – classical inexperienced imbiber with anxiousness – I chugged and basically took myself off the island jolly early on into the night .
" I finally observe myself in a seam in one of the node rooms and democratic boy ’s on - off lady friend comes in wearing his boxers – they had just had sex in the sleeping accommodation down the hallway while I was exit out . She apologized profusely to me , say she did n’t know democratic boy . I was too dazed to be incensed while she was near tears ; I just swallow her excuse and go away to slumber . I still call up look over my eggs and hashbrowns at a diner with my protagonist early the next morning , me so fox over what even encounter the night before that her consolations barely registered . " -Arianna * , 26
Trying to make your GF be friends with your sidepiece is next level
" My boyfriend of five years essentially broke up with me , was all like , ' I just need time and infinite , etc . ' and then a calendar week afterward there were word-painting of him doing romantic things and like lie on the grass with this girl who he had been hanging out with a bit , and he continue trying to make me be friends with her , and we were in the metropolis for New Year ’s Eve and he awkwardly was like I really want to see her , she ’s in town , I ’d love you to meet her , you guys would be good champion , and she hug me in a Boloco and it was so awkward … and then they were dating and all ' dearest is just friendship on fire ' when we formally demote up . " -Mary , * 25
That’s one way to get even!
" We met on Tinder while he was here working as a chef . His visa expired and he had to go back to the commonwealth where he come from . After that he direct me a bunch of unsolicited dick pics , this was after we formally discontinue up . Then I found out he ’d been cheating most of the time he was date , so I send those dick pics to all of his past and current flings . " -Rachel , * 25
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