When it comes to sex , every woman has a few secrets she ’ll never spill . But , she also has a few she is die to portion out – if only she could retrieve a agency to broach the issue . We did the dirty work for you and get eight charwoman to open up about things they really like men would do more of in bed .
We like dirty talk
Telling her she ’s beautiful is a nice way to connect ; but a lot of women would prefer you to speak in a far more colorful language when the lights go out . " I opine dingy talk is so hot , " says Sadie , 36 . " I know it ’s tricky when you do n’t know someone , but I wish my bozo would just get really raunchy with me one nighttime instead of observe it PG-13 . "
Bond with us over bondage
There was a reasonFifty Shades of Greybecame a bestseller … and it was n’t because of the with child storytelling . Many woman would love to introduce a range of BDSM phantasy into their family relationship . " I ’d like my guy to tie my wrists , " pronounce Megan , 27 . Jules , 23 , prefers something a little more aggressive . " I ’d love it if my valet pop back up me during sex activity and using my hair as something to contain on to when doing doggy mode , " she says . Hey – to each her own .
Know your role
We all have different fantasies , and what secure way to explore them than with a pardner you could commit and relax with ? " I would be really into persona play , " says Lindsay , 39 . " Come into the bedroom in a tux , address me like your Julian Bond miss , and show me your 007 . "
Three-ways aren’t just fantasies for guys
Just as some men dream of threesomes , a number of women we spoke to are interested in impart one ( or several ) supererogatory partners into the bedroom on occasion . " I have sex my husband would never go for it , " says Katherine , 34 , " but I would n’t mind having a threesome with another serviceman . He seems to recall it ’s normal for men to want gender with two women , but really judges cleaning woman who do . So I never bring up it . "
Leave your bed out of it
Remember your first flat when you could n’t expect to " christen " every room ? That kind of enthusiasm is just what Cassie , 32 , is take care for . " A bottom is great and well-fixed , " she enjoin , " but what about the shower , the kitchen counter , and on top of the tabular array by the swimming consortium ? There are so many opportunities and fun position to have sexual activity beyond under the continental quilt . "
Oral sex isn’t a one-way street
There are some men who pride themselves on being great with their tongue , but we were shocked to incur that almost one-half of the char in relationship were not getting any oral action from their married person . " My husband just does n’t do it and never has , " says Melanie , 40 . " I do n’t even know if he knows how . " Shelly , 23 , just broke up with a guy rope for lack of give-and-take . " good-for-naught , " she says , " I am not spending the rest of my life on my knees if you ca n’t be bothered to get on yours . "
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Brenda Della Casa is Preston Bailey Designs ' editor - in - chief and digital substance strategist , as well as author ofCinderella Was a Liar . Oh – and that last piece of advice ? Use it . Check her out onFacebook , Instagram , and Twitter:@BrendaDellaCasa .
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