Every woman has that one affair about a adult male that really acquire her go … and sometimes , that thing is a caboodle more eccentric than " he has nice eye . " Personally , I go wild when a guydrives a spliff shiftand sendsgrammatically correct text messages . Which are two things . I guess I ’m more complicated than most . Below , substantial womanhood matter in on odd male quality , action , and possession that ensue in ma’am boners .
Adoration for Taylor Swift
Y chromosome or not , there ’s no denying that " Blank Space " was one of the catchiest Sung dynasty of 2015 . So boy , sing it loud and lofty , because cleaning woman incur it endear . " A guy who can delight belting out a Taylor Swift song with me is distinctly sport - loving and dependable with his manhood , " says Lizzie , 28 . " Plus , it shows he ’s quirky , which is way better that JUST being physically hot . "
Men who do the dishes
Generally , man choose to avoid any figure of rubber glove . Perhaps that ’s part of the appealingness of a guy get down and domesticated , scrubbing sordid dinner party plates elbow - late in a sink of murky dishwater . " I consider it ’s hot to keep an eye on a guy do the dishes , " says Amanda , 28 . " It depict he respects your personal infinite and cares enough about you to have you relax . " The downside ( upside ? ): you ’ll need him to bemuse you on top of the counter immediately after he ’s done , only to dirty it up again .
Long hair
Yes , Hanson Brother Syndrome is still a thing post-1997 . More than a few women mentioned want to jump into seam with guy who have long , luscious locks … even if the rest of them is slightly unkempt . " I love , love , enjoy long pilus on men , " say Giselle , 28 . " Even if he turns around and his grimace is busted or his clothes are shabby , if he has long locks , I ’ll still be into it . I love the way it flows ! " She clarifies that this does n’t necessarily make him boyfriend material , so shaved - lead suer can rest assured .
Guys who rock beanies
A guy assume a beanie and a flummox look in his eye comes off as blasé and hot as hellhole . " A beanie is a halfway lid because it ’s fashionable but provides lilliputian - to - no warmth , " say Jane , 28 . " It enunciate , ‘ I care , but I also kind of do n’t , ’ which is mysterious and sexy . " Ohh , men – even your choice of headwear is giving us mixed messages .
A man who can do a woman’s taxes
Some women have an unbridled desire to wax the man filling out her 1040 form . There are two big reasons this is a round - on , explain Hilary , 29 . " First , it shows me he ’s capable of doing ‘ adult ’ things ; secondly , he see my current financial situation so he ’ll continue to yield for every date . " Genius !
Walking the walk (that’s naturally his)
The way a cat does his walk does his talking . But that ’s not to say you necessitate Idris Elba - like swagman to court the ladies . " This one hombre I see ricochet when he walked , ” says Charlotte * , 27 . " I thought it was the thinned affair ever because it told me he was n’t trying too firmly . ” For the fellas with big gaits , rein yourselves in – woman hate it when you take the air too fast and leave behind them in the dust .
Mixology skills
I ’d venture a guess that every womanhood ’s first sexual love was a bartender . There is a reason for this : scientific discipline . " I love a guy who can budge up a legit cocktail , " says Faye , 28 . " A Moscow scuff or an Old Fashioned whip up at my apartment on a caprice ? That ’s hot . " Just do n’t lean him afterward . That would be uncanny .
Excellent taste in footwear
Who recognize that the God - awful line " nice brake shoe , wanna fuck ? " is rooted in truth ? " Show me a guy walking down the street in a button - down and slacks and my attention lead directly to his shoe , " says Sammy , 24 . " If he ’s wearing clean , expensive - looking loafers , I ’ll need to derail his off-white . " However ! Some footgear move as sex repellant . " Sneakers – specifically New Balance – with the laces tie really pixilated are just awful , " says Eleni , 28 . " If I see that on a valet de chambre I would literally walk away ! ”
Pimple popping?
We are all so attractively unique in our tastes , are n’t we ? Kara , 30 , excuse her zit - squeezing fetich : " Popping pimples is innately comforting , " state Kara , " so doing it to someone you love is even better ! After sleeping together , it can be a really intimate matter . " A healthy take on the after - sex cigarette – I respect that .
Proper coffee appreciation
Coffee is an integral part of many people ’s day-by-day routines , and sharing a freshly brewed pot with the man you woke up next to can be a soldering experience . " A fellow coffee drinker understands me and incline to my needs and desire first thing in the morning , " say Veronica * , 28 … who is citing caffein , not sexual practice . " Plus , it ’s really sexy when he knows how to make me a loving cup precisely how I like it , with just a splash of almond Milk River . " Bonus points to dudes who really keep almond milk in the electric refrigerator .
Dudes who put their phones away
We ’re all hangdog of being slaves to technology at time . But when a man bask the fellowship of his gentlewoman SO much that he does n’t glance down at his phone every two minutes , she ’ll discover in a good manner . " I find it attractive when a date puts his phone forth and gives me undivided attention , " says Julie , 29 . " It works in his favor , too , because when he ’s out with his friend ( or mom ! ) and takes a while to reply my text , I assume he ’s just being evenly cultivated to whomever he ’s with . "
A man who cooks
- Names have been changed .
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